Don’t Go Back to the Man Who Made You Lose Yourself - Riski Pujangga

Don’t Go Back to the Man Who Made You Lose Yourself

 There’s a certain kind of exhaustion that love shouldn’t cause — the kind that keeps you awake at night, questioning your worth, your sanity, and your heart. Yet too many women know that feeling all too well.



When someone loves you right, you feel grounded, safe, and understood. But when love turns into confusion and chaos, it’s no longer love — it’s control wrapped in emotion. A man who once made you smile can, over time, become the same man who has you doubting every thought and every decision you make.

You might remember the good moments, the laughter, the promises. You might think maybe this time will be different. But ask yourself — do you really want to go back to sleepless nights and anxious mornings? To walking on eggshells and constantly wondering what you did wrong?

You deserve peace, not pain disguised as passion. You deserve to rest at night without replaying arguments in your mind. You deserve love that doesn’t make you question your sanity.

The truth is, healing starts the moment you stop romanticizing the chaos. When you choose not to go back to what broke you, you take your power back. You begin to rebuild the version of yourself that was silenced, tired, and scared.

So no, don’t go back to him. Don’t go back to the version of you that accepted less than you deserved. Move forward — even if it’s slow, even if it’s lonely for a while. Because peace is worth more than any temporary comfort that comes from going back.

You owe it to yourself to protect your mind, your heart, and your peace. You are not crazy — you were just trying to love someone who didn’t know how to love you back.

And now, it’s time to love yourself instead.

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