The Strength to Rest - Riski Pujangga

The Strength to Rest

 Women are often praised for being strong—for carrying burdens quietly, for enduring pain with grace, for holding everything together even when they are falling apart inside. Strength becomes an expectation, not a choice. So when a woman says, “I needed this,” what she often means is not luxury or indulgence, but relief—a pause from always having to be resilient.



Behind that simple sentence is exhaustion that has gone unspoken. It is the tiredness of being emotionally available for everyone else, of staying composed through disappointment, of showing up even when her heart feels heavy. Being strong all the time leaves little room to simply be human.


Taking a break does not mean she is weak. It means she is listening to herself. Rest is not quitting; it is repairing. When a woman allows herself space to breathe, to feel, and to soften, she is not losing her strength—she is renewing it.


Society often celebrates women who push through no matter what, but rarely honors those who choose to pause. Yet there is courage in saying, “I can’t do everything right now.” There is wisdom in knowing that strength without rest eventually turns into burnout.


A woman who rests is a woman who values herself. She understands that her worth is not measured by how much she can endure, but by how well she can care for her own well-being. From rest comes clarity, from clarity comes balance, and from balance comes a deeper, healthier strength.


To every woman who needs a break: you are allowed to rest. You are allowed to put yourself first. You do not owe the world constant strength. Sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is stop, breathe, and let yourself be held—by peace, by silence, and by self-love.

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