You Deserve Real Love, Not Just Attention - Riski Pujangga

You Deserve Real Love, Not Just Attention

 In a world where instant connections are just a swipe away, it’s easy to forget what true love actually feels like. We often settle for the bare minimum—messages that come only when he’s bored, attention that fades once he gets what he wants, or relationships built on convenience instead of real emotional connection.



But here’s the truth:

You deserve to be loved. Not liked. Not lusted after. Not tolerated. Loved.

There is a profound difference between someone who sees you as an option and someone who sees you as a blessing. Between someone who desires your presence and someone who values your heart. True love isn’t just about chemistry or passion—it’s about effort, consistency, and emotional safety.


💛 Being Liked Is Easy — Being Loved Takes Intention

Anyone can like you for your beauty, your smile, or the way you make them feel.
But love goes beyond the surface.

Love shows up.
Love chooses you on your worst days.
Love stays even when it’s not convenient.

If someone only shows interest when it benefits them, that’s not love—that’s convenience.


❤️ You Are Not Meant to Be a Placeholder

You are not here to fill someone’s emotional void, entertain their loneliness, or be the temporary comfort they lean on before they find someone “better.”

You are worthy of being:

  • Chosen wholeheartedly

  • Prioritized consistently

  • Respected deeply

  • Loved publicly and privately

You are not a backup plan. You are the main story.


🌷 Don’t Settle for Less Than What You’re Capable of Giving

If you give love with depth, compassion, loyalty, and honesty, you deserve the same in return. Love isn’t supposed to drain you—it's supposed to nourish you, grow you, and bring you peace.

The moment you stop accepting bare-minimum affection is the moment you make space for the love that truly honors who you are.


✨ Final Reminder

You deserve a love that holds your heart carefully, not one that uses it carelessly.
You deserve a love that feels safe, not uncertain.
You deserve a love that stays, not one that only visits when convenient.

Don’t settle for attention. Wait for love.

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